Not long ago someone told me they could have any Filipina they wanted. That is a man that doesn’t understand Filipina at all. Well, I don’t claim to understand any woman but I can assure you that he nor any other man can have any Filipina they want. That is a really silly thing to think much less to write it down. I think he really believes it to be true. I don’t remember who said it and it doesn’t matter.
All Filipina Are Looking For Money?
While many Filipina actively seek out a white male for a partner many others don’t want anything to do with us. I know plenty of Filipina that prefer Filipinos and that some that flat dislike all white men and especially an American. Some of the Americans have not left a good impression. Some Filipinos think we are all after children. That makes me sad when I run into that. Sometimes it makes me angry.
On my YouTube channel, I get a lot of that. If I take a video while walking around the Philippines and there are children in there, I’m shocked at some of the comments on YouTube. I don’t get that attitude from those that live in the Philippines. It is usually young males that live in the USA or another country and probably have never been in the Philippines. This happens a lot, usually once a week or more frequently. It is disturbing and I hope that it is not reflective of the way Filipinos in the USA think of us. From what I’ve seen on YouTube, I think it might be.
Some Filipino women just prefer someone from their culture, that understands their ways. Other Filipina prefer men from a different culture. Sometimes it really is only about that. Some of the women in the Philippines want more freedom than they are likely to get with a pinoy (male Filipino). Of course, not all pinoy are like that but many are.
I’m sure Jessie wanted more freedom, she is not real fond of pinoy. She also needed to improve her living conditions. Like many mothers, she was not eating because she wanted to feed her kids first. She had it better than many but she had some lean times too. She didn’t crave things, that’s not what she was after. She does like her chocolate and clothes that I buy her but usually she tells me not to buy for her. Sometimes I listen and sometimes I insist she gets herself something. She really likes clothes from Playboy. Most Filipina love to get name brand clothes from the USA.
In the four years I had been with her, I could never get her into a swimsuit until I bought her that hot one from Playboy. That she would wear even though it doesn’t say Playboy on it. She wore it first when we were far from home. I don’t know if she’d wear it now in her hometown but her family call her hot mama when they see the pictures of her in it.
Some women in the Philippines, don’t care one bit about your money. They want to feel loved. You might find that hard to believe but it is completely true. It is rare to find one that does not care about money or things. Oh I’m sure they want things, who doesn’t like nice things. What they search for is someone to make them feel loved.
Oh yea, there are plenty of Filipina that want only money and hope they can get it from you without ever settings eyes upon you. There are a lot of ladies that make a living online. If they can get one guy to send them $100 each month that is about what they would earn working in a store. They have to do that eight to ten hours a day for seven days a week. Their online love life is a job for them and they are sometimes very good at it.
Filipina Are Unique
I’ve said it many times, you need to be very careful of the ladies online. Many of the girls online are hoping a guy will really come and love them. Most of the guys never come. Some of the guys see the girl only once and disappear after one night.
The women usually have more than one man they are talking too. Even the serious ones usually have more because they know it is so unlikely the man will ever come for them. It is usually a matter of which guys shows up first.
Is it always about the money? No, it is not always about the money. I think it is rare that it is only about the money. Women find it hard to think in those terms only. I’ve seen women walk right past a man with money and choose the one that can’t help her financially at all. Sometimes they like the bad boy type. Sometimes it makes no sense at all, especially to a man. Women just think different than we men do. At the most fundamental levels we just don’t understand each other. While it is common for a woman to seek stability not all are even after that.
The idea that a man could have any Filipina they wanted is beyond my comprehension. Of course its not true but how could anyone believe that? I can understand getting the “big head” because of Filipina. Wow, I’ve had a lot of pretty ladies chase me. Most of them where living in a fantasy, some of them were just full of “it.”
One that was interested in me was very cute. She was the first I got to know. She was suppose to be 26 and untouched. Really, she was well off, married and had at least one child. She was bored and her husband traveled a lot. She lacked freedom and she wanted some excitement. She wanted to know she could still interest a man. Oh boy, could she interest men. She was very attractive. She also could care less who she hurt. She might have been evil, she was at the very least extremely selfish and not someone I would ever want regardless of how she looked. She fooled me for months. Money was not her motivation at all, it was her ego.
I’ve met so many women in the Philippines and like any place else they are unique. I see most people as doing the best they can. Most just trying to get through life being good to other people, trying to be a nice person. Some are sweet, some are feisty, some are pretty to look at and nice to hold. Others, well, they are not so nice to look at and some are just mean. I don’t find Filipina to be much different at their core than American women. But once they love you, they usually love to take care of you. Jessie won’t let me do much of anything. She’ll stop me and do it for me.
They may not be as wise to the ways of the world. Sometimes, younger Filipina can be rather naive as they just don’t have much experience with the world. They are often very shielded as children but they usually also feel very loved and have a close family that serves as their bedrock. They often have extreme loyalty to their family. Something I wish my family had. It is nice to see. In most cases, her man will never be more important to her than her family. Many women just cannot understand how I could leave my homeland where my family is.
Proceed with caution, it is easier for me to find a good woman here. It is much easier. They come in all different kinds and each one should be treated well. Just be careful on your journey for your island dream girl. They are here and they are very loving if you capture the heart. The loving nature of a Filipina will provide you with a love you’re not likely to have found before.
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